I have friends and family members telling me that they can't quite imagine or picture me as a Mrs. Seriously speaking, till today, I still can't quite believe it myself. Although it is just a change in marital status, it entails something more than that.
To me, it's about sharing a queen size bed (although Lar Lar still says that he feels like he is still sleeping in a single bed as I love to cuddle near him), having fond thoughts of him every now and then that brings a smile to my face, doing more silly things together (like making funny faces and dance moves), learning to be more understanding and accommodating, being more enthusiatic about sharing and doing household chores.... things which I find myself learning all over again.
I used to think that it's crap when people say that marriage can change someone. But now I am a living example (but I ain't no crap!). I even grow to kind of like doing household chores as I like the idea of him coming back to a clean and cosy home. I look forward to waking up every morning to give him a big bear bug and a big fat kiss on his cheek. Every day after work, I don't find it a chore at all to travel all the way from the west to the east to pick him up after his long day at work. I find that our relationship has gone up one notch, if not more. It is a nice feeling to busk in this happiness and it is something I can never understand in my singlehood days.
It really takes a couple to make a marriage work. I hope that in years to come, both of us will continue to make time for each other and treasure the wonderful moments that are only shared between both of us.
A picture that we took while strolling along the Seminyak beach, Bali, our most romantic trip so far :)